Winning is a illusion. It’s not about winning. The brighter we shine on one side the darker they will shade on the other side. We must meet eachother in between so the pendulum doesn’t swing as far to the right as it did to the left. Chaotic and extreme pendulum swing created from both sides trying to overpower the other will eventually lead to destruction. Heaven resides in the middle.
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I totally agree with you on not wanting the pendulum to swing too far either way. It does seem to be so true in my life if I experience a "big win" after that I experience a "big loss". In the last couple of years I have tried to practice being in the middle, not to get too emotional over a win or a loss and I have to tell you it seems to be working. I find it harder to control myself when something bad happens to my family, but I'm working on it.